Why We Can’t All Just Get Along

Julio Angel Rivera
5 min readJul 25, 2023

Something compelling happens when you become curious about the world and your place in it. You begin to pay attention more and more — until you’re only not paying attention when you try not to. The things you observe suddenly mean more than what they once did. Slowly, a universal theme unfolds. Regardless of medium, everything seems to be conveying one clear message.

At first, it seems like mere coincidence, until coincidences happen again and again, day after day — too often to be coincidences. You’ll notice that you hear something in the evening that you heard that morning. You’ll see a poster that says exactly what you were just thinking. You look at a wall, admiring all the imaginative street art on display, and you see what looks like your name with a big heart replacing one of the letters. How did the wall know you needed love that day?

A shadow of a writer, sitting on the rocks, watching wind surfers.

There is only one story. It’s told again and again because no one was listening the first, second, or two-thousandth time. But the storyteller is relentless. He’ll get the message across, or die trying. Just kidding. He can’t die.

I wonder if the ocean waves can tell each other apart? Are they sad when their friends crash against the shore? Do the waves from the Pacific have a beef with the waves from the Atlantic? Do they want to exterminate each other?

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Julio Angel Rivera

Dad, writer, author of Brokedown Sensei, martial arts coach, mental health advocate, speaker - From Brooklyn. NYU grad. Visit InternalJiuJitsu.com..